Growing up as a neurotypical young woman, I saw advancing in society as something well within my grasp, as the implicit rules that govern our social actions and the overall ethos that we engage with all made sense to me. However, at a young age, I was exposed to many friends and fellow classmates who were neurodivergent – people my age with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and other behavioral health conditions.

I frequently found myself trying to help these children in school and getting along with them, whereas most other kids shied away. To me, our differences made us stronger, and I learned an enormous amount from my neuroatypical friends.

Having a strong passion for community service, and as I grew older, I took advantage of number of opportunities to expand my stewardship. As a volunteer at AttachAvi Autism Foundation, I worked with a large group of neurodivergent students. My job was to make them feel included, inspire their creativity, facilitate their social growth, and empower them. I created a fashion and talent show, where all the participants could display a talent in front of a large enthusiastic audience. During the creation of the show, I saw that children on autism spectrum learn in different ways as each child on the autism spectrum is different. I had to use specific individual techniques in order for the students to understand everything and make the show run smoothly.

“If a child can’t learn the way we teach, maybe we should teach the way they learn.”

― Ignacio Estrada

I realized that this quote stands so true within the autism community.

This experience turned out to be the most impactful and rewarding experience of my life. I met so many amazing people, and found that these are rather incredible people who are unique in their own ways. Every individual has different set of challenges and that’s why autism is represented with a symbol of puzzle piece. The Individuals on autism spectrum make the fabric of culture richer and offer new ways to look at things.

I also saw that parents of children on autism spectrum have too many things to handle juggling between the therapies and other needs and this made me realize that a little bit from my side can help them in both ways as I can give the children a platform to socialize while giving some respite to the parents.

Therefore, I started LetsShineTogether to help uplift the voices of our neurodivergent children in my local community. I hope to engage in best practices from other organizations focused on social support to help children on autism spectrum learn valuable social activities by bridging the gap between resources and families of children with special needs. At LetsShineTogether, we take holistic approach by focusing on developing cognitive, academic and emotional skills in social groups for these children while assisting them in their day-to-day activities. Our hope is to empower ALL people – regardless of neurotype.

Ria Bajaj